now married to my fiance of 13 months. I got
married about 5 months ago to a man I thought was
God fearing, loyal and had my interest at heart. The
thought of cheating on him has never crossed my
mind, but I think he pushed me out. Before our wedding my husband didn't have much
in his house so I bought most of the fittings in the
house. I also fixed the kitchen from the money I
made from the wedding. After all the refurbishing, I
became penniless. On this fateful day, I told my husband I needed to
make my hair, this was like a month after our
wedding, he immediately snapped at me and started
saying all sorts of things. I was surprised because
this man knew I spent all I had on furnishing our
home. I didn't say anything to him. After he left for work, I went to see a friend of mine
who works in a construction firm. I couldn't tell her
what happened I just told her I needed a job and she
said she will talk to her boss to see if there was any
vacancy. I was frequenting the company and one
day the boss asked me why I was always coming around the office and I told him I needed a job. He gave me a job and the following week he wanted
to start a relationship with me but I disagreed. My
husband continued his nonchalant attitude towards
me and sometimes does not leave money to cook for
me and my 11-year old daughter. My friend helped me explain the situation of things at
home to my new boss and he said he would give me
a loan. Instead of the loan he gave me N350,000 for
free. Ever since then, he has never stopped
showering me with gifts. I cook for my husband from his money and he never
deemed it fit to ask me where I get the money to
make assorted soup at home from. After three
weeks of working with him, he asked me to stop
coming to work and placed me on salary. My
husband still didn't ask me any question, he just kept enjoying the money with me and my daughter. Before you all start cussing me out yes I know my
marriage is not up to 6 months but I think marrying
my husband was a big mistake. My problem now is that my boss wants me to leave
my husband to be his second wife. In fact he has
started scouting for a house for me. I am not happy
about the situation, but I think my husband is a gold
digger who does not care about what I do to make
money and just wants to live off me. I am confused at the moment if I should leave my husband for him
or stay back and endure his attitude of not caring for
me. I am a single mother and would not mind being a
second wife. Please help.
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